FAQs

1. Why is Guru important in our life?

It is said in scriptures:

“Guru is even greater than God, because the Guru shows the path to God.”

Without guidance, even if God is near, one may not recognize Him. The Guru helps us see.

• Guides us from Darkness to Light

The word Guru comes from Sanskrit:

Gu = Darkness (ignorance)

Ru = Remover
A Guru removes ignorance and shows the path of knowledge, wisdom, and truth.

• Gives Direction in Life

Like a compass, a Guru shows us where to go. Without guidance, one may get lost in confusion, temptations, or doubts.

• Transmits Real Knowledge

Books can give information, but a Guru imparts real understanding through experience, discipline, and values.

• Shapes Character & Values

A true Guru doesn’t just teach subjects but also teaches how to live—with humility, compassion, patience, and courage.

• Awakens Inner Potential

Gurus don’t put knowledge into us—they help bring out what is already hidden within, like lighting a lamp.

• Support in Difficult Times

A Guru acts like a mentor, giving clarity when life feels confusing or burdensome

In Hindu mythology, whenever divine beings took birth on earth, they too chose Gurus to guide their human journey. For instance, Lord Krishna became a student of Sage Sandipani, while Lord Rama first learned from Sage Vashistha in his early years and later received advanced training from Sage Vishwamitra. Though they were divine, they still respected the Guru–Shishya tradition, showing us the importance of a guide in life.

Now, if you pause and reflect: are you truly happy, content, and satisfied in life? If even a small doubt arises, perhaps it’s a sign that you need guidance. A Guru helps us see clearly, break through confusion, and move towards the deeper purpose of life—something that often seems unreachable in our daily routines.

As humans, it’s easy to get lost in the busyness of work, family, relationships, and endless responsibilities. In all this noise, we forget the true essence of our existence. A Guru acts like a lighthouse in this chaos, helping us stay steady and reminding us of our soul’s real journey.

The truth is, not everyone finds their Guru in this lifetime. But if you’re reading these words, maybe this is already the beginning of your path. Remember, it is said: we don’t find the Guru—the Guru finds us. And when the time is right, as Swami Vivekananda beautifully put it:

“When the disciple is ready, the master appears.”

2. Why is Guru held in such high reverence?

To illustrate the ineffable nature of a Guru’s stature, the saint Kabir offers a hauntingly beautiful metaphor: even if the entire earth were turned into paper, all the oceans became ink, and every tree became a pen, one still couldn’t describe the glory embodied by the word “Guru.” He hails the Guru as being above even God in honor—explaining that if both Guru and God appeared before him, he would first bow to his Guru, since the Guru is the one who revealed God to him. 

3. What is the literal meaning behind the term “Guru”?

Etymologically, the word “Guru” combines two Sanskrit roots: ‘Gu’, meaning darkness, and ‘Ru’, meaning light. Thus, a Guru is literally someone who dispels darkness—ignorance—and brings illumination and clarity to the seeker’s life. 

4. Who is Gurudev and what was his early spiritual journey like?

From a young age, Gurudev felt a profound search within his life—but did not yet know its origin. After completing his matriculation, he was married. Yet almost immediately, he left home to pursue this inner quest. For about four to five years, he traveled extensively through religious sites—churches, gurudwaras, temples—and even spent time in the Himalayas with sadhus, but still felt unfulfilled. Ultimately, he settled into deep meditation at Santokhsar near Amritsar. On the 40th day of his vigil at 1:30 AM, a white cobra barred his path. Undeterred, he pressed forward, and a divine voice told him that what he sought would only come through living a spiritual family life (Grihasth Ashram). Following this, he returned home, lived with honor alongside his wife Mataji, and embarked on his spiritual and professional life—in time joining the Ministry of Agriculture as an officer—all while continuing his mantra practice.

5. How did the name “Guruji” come about?

The name “Guruji” was bestowed during a moment of compassion and miraculous healing. Once, while on a soil-survey trip near Ratlam (M.P.), villagers asked Gurudev to help a man suffering from severe stomach pain. As Gurudev placed his hand on the afflicted man’s belly—the very hand where the sacred OM symbol had appeared—the man was instantly healed. Witnessing this, everyone present began calling him “Guruji.” Since then, that name has held such power that most devotees know him only by it.

1. How did “Seva” (selfless service) originate at the Sthaan?

Around 1971, after attaining significant spiritual powers, Gurudev’s own Guru (whom he referred to as “Buddhe Baba,” visible only to a select few disciples) instructed him to open his home for service. This place came to be known as the Sthaan. As people began seeking him out with various troubles, many experienced healing through his presence. Just as fire spreads, word of this healing power grew. To ensure everyone had access, he designated the Thursday following every no-moon night (Amavasya) for service—calling it Bada Guruvaar. On these days, between fifty and seventy thousand people would queue, sometimes waiting more than a day, just to receive his darshan and blessing.

2. How tirelessly did Gurudev serve his devotees?

His dedication was unparalleled. He would begin seva as early as 3:15 AM and continue meeting devotees till 1:30–2:30 AM the next day, often without eating. He would place his hand gently on each devotee’s head to bless them. Though many were healed through this touch, he humbly attributed the power to “Buddhe Baba,” not himself.

3. What role did Guru Mata play during the early years of Seva at the Sthaan?

On 28 July 1991, two days after Guru Pooja, Gurudev chose to depart from his human form. He lived his life like anyone else—dressing, eating, and walking normally—yet his spiritual powers were immense. He could grant anything, and he loved all with equal warmth. Even after his departure, his traditions continue exactly as he started them; seva at the Sthaan persists, and thousands still come seeking solace and healing. Spiritually, he remains present forever.On 28 July 1991, two days after Guru Pooja, Gurudev chose to depart from his human form. He lived his life like anyone else—dressing, eating, and walking normally—yet his spiritual powers were immense. He could grant anything, and he loved all with equal warmth. Even after his departure, his traditions continue exactly as he started them; seva at the Sthaan persists, and thousands still come seeking solace and healing. Spiritually, he remains present forever.

4. When and how was Guruji’s Moorti Roop installed at the Mukhya Sthaan in Gurgaon?

Guruji’s Moorti Roop was installed (Sthaapit) at the Main Gurgaon Sthaan (Sector 10-A) in 2007, though some sources suggest 2006—both point to the same event’s significance. Crafted by expert artisans from Jaipur, the deity’s idol was lovingly transported back to Gurgaon in a convoy of about 18 cars filled with devotees

5. What spiritual ceremonies accompanied the installation, and who led them?

A grand Havan ceremony was organized by Pujniya Mataji, during which Pran Pratishtha (infusing life into the idol) was performed under the auspices of both Guruji and Mataji’s blessings. This sacred ritual signifies that the Moorti is not merely a statue, but a living embodiment of Guruji, who is believed to be continuously present in this form at the Sthaan.

6. What is the devotional significance of the Moorti for seekers and devotees?

The Moorti Roop is much more than an artistic representation—devotees believe that standing before it evokes Guruji’s bliss, divine power, compassionate pull, and unwavering grace. It serves as a spiritual focal point where seekers can experience His presence as closely as if He were physically with them.

1. Who is Gurumata Ji, and why is she revered?

Gurumata Ji is venerated as the living embodiment of Maa Shakti, the divine feminine energy, regarded as equally powerful as Lord Shiva. She represents Gurudev’s Shakti in human form, embodying spiritual strength, grace, and nurturing power.

2. How did she wait for Gurudev during his early spiritual quest?

After Gurudev left home on the very day of his marriage in search of his spiritual identity, Guru Mata remained steadfast and patient—praying earnestly for his safe return. Her unwavering faith and devotion were eventually validated when Gurudev did return, honoring her with love, respect, and the role of a true spiritual partner.

3. What role did Guru Mata play during the early years of Seva at the Sthaan?

When the first “Seva” sessions began at their home-turned-Sthaan, Guru Mata radiated motherly warmth and joy, greeting devotees with love and affection. Gurudev often served devotees for more than 24 hours at a stretch—sometimes attending to over 60,000 people—without pausing to eat. It was only after he had finished that Guru Mata would take her own meals, embodying selfless care and devotion.

4. What role did she fulfill when Gurudev chose to depart from his human form?

Before Gurudev’s conscious departure from his human body, he entrusted Guru Mata with a deeply significant task—lighting a Jyot (sacred lamp) at Neelkanth Dham, the site designated for his samadhi. It was through her own divine strength that she could carry out this profoundly spiritual act.

5. How did she continue to support and comfort devotees after Gurudev’s physical departure?

Even after Gurudev passed away, devotees felt his absence deeply. Guru Mata, with her loving and steadfast presence, ensured that no one felt spiritually bereft. She continued to meet devotees with unwavering enthusiasm and provided a nurturing sense of reassurance—remaining a guiding light until she, too, passed away.

6. When did Guru Mata leave her physical form, and what legacy did she leave behind?

Guru Mata departed from her human form on 2 May 2014, coinciding with Akshaya Tritiya—just one day after her birthday. Her spiritual aura and loving presence continue to guide devotees, and her legacy flourishes through the continued practice of Seva at the Sthaan, upheld by the followers as per Gurudev’s instructions.

1. What is Bada Guruvaar and how is it observed?

Bada Guruvaar is observed on the Thursday following Amavasya (no-moon night) every month. On this sacred day, devotees gather at the Gurgaon Sthaan early in the morning (5:15 AM in summers and 6:15 AM in winters) to offer Meethi Phuliyan as prasad. The entire day is spent in Seva and prayer, and it is believed that any wish made sincerely while offering prasad may be fulfilled. Khichri and tea are served to all devotees, and large numbers also visit Neelkanth Dham on this day.

2. How is Ganesha Chaturthi celebrated?

Ganesha Chaturthi falls nearly 80 days after Deepawali and is observed with a strict nirjala fast (without food or water). The fast is broken after moonrise with laddoos made from jaggery (Gud) and sesame (Til), along with tea mixed with Gud. A special feature of this day is that the prasad is distributed to all devotees by Guru Mata herself, symbolizing divine blessings.

3. What is the significance of Basant Panchmi?

Basant Panchmi is marked as Gurudev’s birthday, though Guruji himself mentioned that his true birthday is on Maha Shiv Ratri. According to the Vikrami Samvat calendar, it usually falls in February (sometimes in January). On this day, devotees gather in large numbers at Neelkanth Dham, where langar continues throughout the day. The occasion is observed with complete discipline, silence, and chanting of mantras while devotees patiently wait in queues for darshan and blessings.

4. How is Maha Shiv Ratri observed?

Maha Shiv Ratri occurs about 40 days after Ganesha Chaturthi and is one of the most significant days of worship. Devotees offer sacred items dear to Lord Shiva, such as Bel, Bel Patra, and Dhatura. A nirjala fast is kept throughout the day, which is broken at midnight with prasad of Alu and lemon tea (Nimbu Ki Chai). Langar continues for several days around Shiv Ratri, and special arrangements are made at the trust building in Gurgaon to accommodate devotees arriving from all over India.

5. What is Mataji’s Nirvana Divas?

Mataji’s Nirvana Divas is observed on Akshaya Tritiya and commemorates the day in 2014 when Mataji, who embodied the divine energy of Gurudev, left her physical body and merged with the eternal presence. Devotees gather at Neelkanth Dham to pay homage at her samadhi. On this occasion, prasad of chane and halwa is distributed, symbolizing Mataji’s nurturing and motherly presence.

6. What happens on Guru Pooja day?

Guru Pooja is celebrated on the full moon (Poornima) in July. Devotees begin prayers early in the morning at the Gurgaon Sthaan and offer a coconut wrapped in a handkerchief. After the ritual, the coconut is returned with tilak, and the handkerchief is kept as a sacred symbol of good luck for the year ahead. The prasad of Meethe Chawal (sweet rice) is distributed to all, while langar continues for several days before and after the celebration.

7. What is Nirvana Divas?

Nirvana Divas is observed two days after Guru Pooja. It marks the day when Gurudev left his human form, although his spiritual presence continues to guide devotees. On this solemn occasion, disciples gather at Neelkanth Dham to pay respects at his samadhi, and prasad of chane and halwa is offered to all devotees. The day serves as a reminder of Guruji’s eternal presence beyond the physical body.

8. What is the significance of Dhan Teras at Guru Sthaan?

Dhan Teras, observed two days before Deepawali, is celebrated with the offering of a silver coin engraved with Shri Lakshmi and Shri Ganesh. Devotees bring the coin to the Guru Sthaan, where it is blessed and returned. The coin is then worshipped daily with tilak for 41 days and preserved as a source of good luck and fortune for the year. The same coin can be reused in subsequent years, making it a lasting blessing from Guruji.

9. What basic rules should a beginner follow on Mondays?

On Mondays, beginners are advised to refrain from consuming alcoholic drinks and non-vegetarian food or eggs. Additionally, they should lead a Saatvik life, which implies embracing Brahmacharya—a path of purity, moderation, and discipline.

10. What additional rules apply on Thursdays?

The guidelines for Thursdays are more comprehensive. Devotees should avoid alcoholic drinks and non-veg/eggs, just as on Mondays, but also observe the following:

• Do not use soap on the head
• Do not wash clothes
  
• Do not donate money or grains (though prepared food may be offered)
  
• Do not lend money
  
• Do not cut hair or nails
  
• Do not shave, trim, or wax
  
• Continue leading a Saatvik life (Brahmacharya)

11. What is the Kada and why is it given to devotees?

Every devotee receives a Kada made of copper and silver from Guruji on their first visit to the Guru-Sthaan. The copper symbolizes Lord Shiva, while the silver represents Maa Parvati (Shakti). This dual-metal Kada establishes a deep physical and spiritual connection with Guruji, and also links the body with the soul, serving as a constant reminder of divine presence.

12. How does the Kada help devotees spiritually?

The Shakti energy in the Kada works to draw out a devotee’s problems, which are then surrendered to the power of Lord Shiva, also present within the Kada. This process allows believers to offload their burdens while staying spiritually anchored to Guruji. Additionally, even when physically distant, the Kada provides continuous spiritual protection, as it keeps Guruji’s presence alive for His devotees.

13. Is there a scientific basis for wearing the Kada?

Yes—just as we protect appliances with stabilizers, the Kada acts as a stabilizer for the human body, which is the most complex creation. Exposed to cosmic rays from the sun and other celestial bodies, each person’s resilience varies. The Kada helps balance these cosmic energies, much like a stabilizer.

• The copper portion slowly releases trace elements into the body through the skin, enhancing resistance and well-being—comparable to how water stored in copper vessels is considered healthful.
• The silver component similarly offers subtle benefits.
  Additionally, copper’s conductivity—used for grounding lightning in tall buildings—symbolically reinforces how blessed Kada shields the wearer from spiritual and cosmic disturbances.

14. How does the blessed Kada protect the devotee?

Beyond its scientific attributes, once the Kada is blessed by Guruji, it becomes a comprehensive protective shield, enveloping the wearer with divine energy. It offers round-the-clock spiritual protection and serves as a constant connection to Guruji’s grace.

1. Is there any Mantra that we should do? 

The Shishyas and followers of Guruji have been granted different matras by the Guruji to guide them in different situations with certain rules & restrictions. So, you should ask Guruji in person for any matra during your visit to any of the Guru Sthaan. 

For now, there’s one matra, which is inscribed at every Guru Sthaan, with which you can get started with “Om Namo Shiv Om, Om Namo Gurudev”

Here’s a link to a video with the same mantra, which you can listen to at any point in time as per your convenience: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kQX0AQcwDzc

 

2. Can I find the addresses of different sthaans?

You can find the address of all the Guru Sthaans here: https://gurujigurgaonwale.com/sthaans/

We recommend you visiting Mukhya Sthaan (Sector 7 Gurugaon) & Himgiri Bhawan (Sector 10 Gurgaon). In case if you are living at some far off place, you can visit any of the Guru Sthaan to seek blessings from Guruji and offer your prayers: https://gurujigurgaonwale.com/sthaans/

 

3. What are the books “Glimpses Unbelievable”? 

You must have seen these books being distributed in the Moorti Hall in Himgiri Bhawan during Bada Guruvaar. These books are written by Rajpaul Guruji (though he addresses himself as one of the Shishya’s of the Guruji), about the various events that he has experienced / witnessed during his days with Guruji. These events will help you understand about the Guruji and how He had impacted millions of lives when He lived on earth in physical form. 

The books can be a start to your spiritual journey and can be an awakening call to help you understand what lies beyond the normal daily lives that we live. 

You can either collect them in-person during your next visit to the Himgiri Bhawan or you can also download the books from here (they are available in both English & Hindi): https://gurujigurgaonwale.com/download/

 

4. How should I get started following the Guruji of Gurgaon? 

Just visit the Sthaan (Mukhya Sthaan, Himgiri Bhawan or any Sthaan of Guruji) on the next event, and the Sewadaars there will guide you to Guruji and you will be blessed with the Kada to come under the guidance of the Guruji of Gurgaon.

 

5. How do I stay updated with all the events happening at the Sthaan? 

You can refer to the events page on our website to know the schedule of the events at the Guru Sthaan: https://gurujigurgaonwale.com/events/

Along with that, you can find the details of all the events at Guru Sthaan & the trips across various Sthaans in India & abroad on our Facebook & Instagram page.